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For Private, Personal Consultations:


The Institute for Relational Harm Reduction is now offering private consulting on violent relationship strategies with Susan Murphy-Milano.These sessions are designed for those involved in divorce proceedings, child custody or domestic abuse situations.You will receive a response within 72 hours with your appointment date and time.To schedule your appointment CLICK HERE

Services Available From Susan Murphy Milano 
Through the Institute for Relational Harm Reduction

Intimate Partner Violence:
(Must purchase a copy of Time’s Up: A Guide on How to Leave an Abusive and Stalking Relationship to use as workbook)

  • Consultation
  • Case/Documents Review
  • Personal Safety Orchestration
  • Continued Case Assistance
  • Teleseminars/Webinars

Divorce Planning
(Must purchase a copy of Moving out, Moving on to use as workbook)

  • Consultation
  • Strategies-Before/During/After
  • Safety Issues Planning and Direction
  • Child Custody Issues 
  • Court Orders of Protection 
  • Teleseminars/Webinars
  • Training/Workshops for all First Responders 

Criminal Case Reviews/ Cold Cases/Suspicious Deaths

  • Consultation
  • Case/Documents Review
  • Preparation 
  • Public Awareness/Media Services 
  • Research/Fact Finding
  • Orchestration of Legal Issues 

Relationships Involving Partners in Law Enforcement
(Must purchase the book Time’s Up as a workbook or download eBook)

  • Consultation 
  • Using caution when ending Relationship and Plan of Action 
  • Case/Documents Review 
  • Survival and exit strategies 
  • Divorce and attorney planning 
  • Union and department issues when the relationship is ending 
  • Documentation and the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit 
  • Training/Workshops for all First Responders (Law Enforcement, Advocates, Hospitals, Court Personnel, Attorneys, Agencies) 

It is well documented that intimate partner violence, stalking and threats are precursors to homicide. It is vital for prosecutors and law enforcement officers to be able to identify the red flags that often precede violence. If we can identify these precursors, we can predict, and thus prevent many homicides. Susan Murphy Milano will share from her over twenty years of experience with victims of intimate partner violence, stalking and threat cases to present on the importance of violence assessment during all stages of the investigation and prosecution, as well as demonstrate the benefits of a multi-disciplinary proactive approach to domestic violence stalking and threat cases. The presentation will utilize case studies-both successes and failures- to demonstrate how to effectively hold offenders accountable and best protect victims from further harm. This presentation will be beneficial for prosecutors, law enforcement, victim advocates and probation/parole officers.



The Institute For Relational Harm Reduction and Public Pathology Education, and it’s Founder and CEO, Sandra L. Brown, M.A., have invited Susan Murphy Milano to be a colleague in the Institute’s ongoing mission to offer solutions to those in crisis relationships.The Institute’s programs center around educatingthose who are in, or chronically go back to, relationships with persons who are recognized as pathologicals.“Not understanding how pathology manifests in relationships and the often manipulative behavior of those with pathology and you have partners, families, and children who are devasted almost as much by the lack of information as by the destruction that often happens at the hands of the pathological. Without the education of ‘what‘ the disorder is, ‘how‘ it came to be, ‘whom‘ it effects, ‘why‘ it harms others, partners, family and children live in the shadows of unspoken confusion and pain.”The collaboration of these two powerhouse women, along with other involved professionals, promises to be a part of the solution, helping the public to recognize the dangers of a pathological relationship and create a comprehensive, individual plan to leave safely.

For complete information about the programs, books and information offered by the Institute, as well as services and the latest happenings, please refer to
 Safe Relationships Magazine.




Consultations also available through affiliation with Management Resources LTD of NY
800-490-2267